Friday, July 3, 2020

Baby Sullivan - The First 12 Weeks


Baby Sullivan – The First 12 weeks

Chris and I made the decision not to tell a soul about our current pregnancy until we hit the 12 week zone and got the all clear from our doctor.   What many people don’t know is that approx 6 months after we got married, we got pregnant and had a miscarriage (around 7 weeks).  It was devastating for me.  That’s a story for another time.

I often get asked when I knew I was pregnant.  It was early.  Very early.  I am very regular with my cycle and very in tune with my body.  When I missed my period, I knew it was possible I could be pregnant.  We had been tracking ovulation for 6+ months and the timing was right.  I was very cautious though (previous experience and all).  I waited until approx the 6 week mark to even take a pregnancy test.  Isn’t that crazy? 

Fun fact: I actually took my 1st pregnancy test in the bathroom at work and hit it in my drawer without looking at it (for the next couple hours). 

That test was positive!  I took another one a week later.  Still positive.  In all honesty, I tried to put it out of my mind.  I didn’t want to get my hopes up after our previous experience.

At the 8 week mark I had an appt with my OB.  Chris was still unaware that I was pregnant.  There were a million times I almost told him, but I had to be sure.  The doctor confirmed it.  I saw the heartbeat and the teeny tiny little baby.

I began brainstorming fun ways to tell Chris we made a miracle baby.  I had settled on a walk around the Lakefront and slipping it in to the conversation somehow.  However, several days in a row, he was so beat after work that the walk didn’t happen. I wound up blurting it out in our kitchen while we were getting dinner ready. LOL. 

Chris’s first time seeing the baby “for real” was at our 12 week appointment.  I think it got real then.  At that point, we began deciding how to tell our families & then eventually announcing it on social media.

Stay tuned for the next part in the Baby Sullivan story…..

Baby Sullivan - The First 12 Weeks

Baby Sullivan – The First 12 weeks Chris and I made the decision not to tell a soul about our current pregnancy until we hit the 12 week...